Your Ultimate Survival Guide for Thanksgiving With The Family

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The snow-capped mountains, hearty meals, and crackling fireplaces make it feel like you’re starring in your own Hallmark movie.

But... let’s be honest. Family gatherings can bring as much drama as a Griz fan in a Cats household. From “spirited” debates to deciding who gets the last slice of pumpkin pie, Thanksgiving can test even the sturdiest Montanan.

Luckily, with a little humor, preparation, and grace, you can navigate Thanksgiving peacefully and tactfully. Here are five tips to help you keep the holiday fun, light, and maybe even heartwarming.

1. Plan for the Potluck Politics (Food, Not Opinions)

If you’re hosting, set the tone early: food is the only thing up for debate. Create a potluck sign-up sheet so everyone feels included (and so you don’t end up with three sweet potato casseroles). Bonus tip: throw in a "mystery dish" slot to keep things exciting; Aunt Linda’s experimental huckleberry-Jell-O casserole might just surprise you.

2. Embrace the Great Montanan Outdoors

When conversation lulls—or threatens to veer into dangerous political territory—suggest a post-dinner walk or some outdoor fun. A brisk stroll through the neighborhood or a quick snowball fight can work wonders for breaking tension. Plus, nothing says "family bonding" like collectively trying not to slip on icy sidewalks.

3. Create a “Kid Zone” (Adults May Apply)

Let’s face it: kids and adults don’t always mix well during a long holiday meal. Set up a “kid zone” with games, crafts, or a holiday movie marathon. Adults who need a breather from the table are welcome too; just don’t hog the coloring books or the controller.

4. Practice the Art of the Polite Dodge

Someone always brings up that one touchy topic. When this happens, channel your inner Montanan politeness. A well-timed “Oh wow, that’s interesting, but did you hear about the weather coming in?” can steer the conversation toward safer ground. It may sound ridiculous, but one thing we all know for sure is that Montanans never tire of talking about the weather.

5. Don’t Forget the Real Thanksgiving MVPs

Take a moment to give thanks—not just for the food, but for the people around you. Whether it’s Grandpa’s corny jokes or your cousin’s chaotic kitchen skills, appreciating the quirks makes the day meaningful. And hey, if things get a little too quirky, just remember: it’s only one day.

Thanksgiving with family is like a Montana winter: it can be unpredictable, a little messy, but ultimately beautiful in its own way. By staying lighthearted, focusing on what really matters, and embracing a little flexibility, you’ll come away from the holiday with full hearts—and even fuller plates.

So take a deep breath, grab that second helping of stuffing, and enjoy the ride.

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!